That's the reason you're here anyway, right?
To all who have lost someone near and dear... Be encouraged. I know it doesn't feel good to you. They may have left in a painful way but I heard someone say that there is no pain in death. Pain exists only during life. If the person(s) you mourn died in Christ, you can cry for you, but don't cry for them. They're better now. When I lost loved ones, I cried selfish tears. I wanted them here with me, to watch me live and to laugh with me, grow with me. I miss their laughs and fun times... but I don't miss their suffering. I thank God that their living wasn't up to me. I would've kept them here as long as I could even if it meant them suffering or struggling one more day. God knows best. I often hear my pastor say, "They wouldn't come back if they could." They're okay now. Whether they left abruptly, without warning or suffered for a while in sickness...they are okay now. No more sickness, no more suffering, no more struggling. Be encouraged.